As we all know, going back to school brings with it so many thoughts, plans, and emotions! There is nothing better than a fresh start! Starting out right with classroom and behavior management is always at the top of my list!
Without it we really can accomplish nothing else. Mindfully teaching kids about how to behave in our classrooms and on the playground is how we set the tone for the year.
PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY: GOOD CHOICES/BAD CHOICES
A deep quote when thinking of teaching little ones? Maybe. Maybe not though. If you are thinking about the big picture.
Whether you agree with this statement or not, I bet we can all agree that in the classroom we want our kids to be respectful and treat others with kindness. We need it to teach, they need it to learn. We all deserve to have a safe, friendly environment to enjoy everyday.
Even the littlest students can learn about personal responsibility, and that your choices, good and bad, all have consequences. It has been my experience teaching in a Title 1 school for over 27 years that many of our kids come to school without some of the basic ideas of right and wrong, at least from my perspective. We, as educators, teach our own children these things, so we assume that most parents do to. Right? As with everything else, yes, and no. I have been teaching long enough to see former kindergarten students grow up, go to college, have children of their own, and even be in my class!
Unfortunately, I have seen former students who have made bad choices in life that led them so far astray that they will never be free again to do as they choose. There is much debate and talk these days about how to handle classroom management.
As a new teacher, many years ago, I remember it to be my biggest challenge. Whether you use a behavior chart, a clip chart, Class Dojo, or whatever system you use, or choose not to use, consistency, and fairness are the key. Clip charts or behavior charts are not bad in and of themselves, they can provide structure for teachers (new and experienced)! Some folks with challenging class circumstances, really like the concrete visuals they provide for students. I really believe there are so many different ways to approach this, and I feel a little sad when I see so many generalizations and negatives written about the use of clip charts etc. If they work effectively for you, and you use them with respect and integrity, you shouldn’t be shamed for it. We need to stop telling each other as educators that there is a “best” way. There are many ways. It’s not so much what strategy or system we use, but how we use it. New teachers especially should not be made to feel that they are doing something wrong. There are best practices with everything, but there are also many approaches and ways of doing things that work for different people. My goodness, this world is hard enough on teachers without our help!
That being said - I do not agree with overt ways of dealing with behavior issues that belittle, embarrass or poke little holes in little ones' self esteem. Absolutely not! My go to is "the look", a whisper in the ear, a private heart-to-heart conference (my favorite), and meeting with parents if necessary. I really believe people can successfully use lots of different kinds of systems if their heart is in the right place, and they are thoughtful and respectful about it.
How do you start out on the right foot?
1. Building relationships.
2.Teaching/demonstrating clear expectations directly and indirectly through modeling and also directly through instruction: lessons, games, anecdotes and stories.
3. Classroom climate and culture
BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS
Building relationships with kids takes time. Letting them get to know you, to feel safe, and know that you are the same person all day long in the classroom as you are when you are step out on the sidewalk (talking to parents after school). They know. It matters.
We all know that feeling we get when we know someone genuinely likes us. It makes us feel good. It is validating. One of the best things a student ever said to me was this: “I love the way you look right at me”. Melt. My. Heart. That genuine feeling of knowing that someone cares about you, and that how you feel and what you have to say matters. When they know you like them, they are much more apt to want to please you. These relationships take time and effort, but they are worth it for our kids both emotionally and academically. Ultimately, years down the line, they will remember how we made them feel.
TEACHING
No matter what, to be successful, any classroom management must start by nurturing good behavior by teaching right from wrong. We cannot just assume that our kids idea of right and wrong is the same as ours. Plain and simple, in life there are good choices and there are bad choices. Talking about bad choices seems to have become, somehow, politically incorrect, I disagree with this notion because we, as their teachers, may be the only person being ‘real’ with them, and talking to them about it. We can teach that we may make bad choices sometimes, but that does not make us bad people. Think of a seventeen year old who made bad choices and is serving time for those choices. A lack of education and information about right/wrong, good/bad, and the consequences that accompany each may be something he/she wishes someone had taken the time to make them really aware of. If we want our students to follow classroom rules, be respectful, kind, courteous, and work hard, we must show them HOW, and tell them WHY, and facilitate meaningful conversation to deepen critical thinking about how we can identify emotions and control ourselves.
Ultimately, we are growing citizens. I believe it is the greatest responsibility we face as educators. Growing good citizens. There is nothing more important. In simpler times we taught them mostly academia. It is now our duty to teach them so much more. We live in a very complicated world, and as educators, this is probably the greatest challenge of our day.
EXPECTATIONS/CLASSROOM CLIMATE & CULTURE
In order to be effective, expectations for conduct, behavior, and personal responsibility should be modeled through indirect instruction daily and taught directly through lessons, discussions, and visual reminders.
Many of our students live in homes and neighborhoods that operate much differently than our own. Their “rules” at home may look very different than our own homes and our classrooms. Assuming they are the same is a huge mistake. Every environment has it’s own culture. Every culture has acceptable and unacceptable norms.
To understand this, think of a student who, according to our standards, may not have a good home life. In order to “survive” in his/ her home and/or neighborhood, he/she may have to act a certain way that may not be acceptable at school. Many kids who come to school who are “survivors” at home, and may have trouble assimilating into the school environment because it is so different from their home.
We must teach them that at school we have our own culture, and our own norms, and that it’s okay to assimilate into each as needed. “At school we _____________”. It’s fair, and it’s honest to teach them that things can look, feel, and be different at home and at school, and that it’s okay. When we respect what their home environment looks like, we are validating them and telling them “you come here as you are, we accept you, and this is how we do it at school”. I believe with all my heart that there are many, many kids that learn in school, with a kind, caring and thoughtful teacher at the helm, that there is a different way of living than what they may be use to. Providing them a peek into a different way of life, even when they are very young, can give them a vision for a life they may have never otherwise known could exist. Directly teaching right from wrong, good choices vs. bad choices provides a standard for which to live and behave, and that those choices come with positive and negative consequences. There is power in knowing that you have some control over outcomes of situations based on choices you make on the front end of any given situation, even for little kids.
Indirect:
Building a classroom community takes time. It takes talking, sharing, caring and a common understanding of the culture of the room, and the expectations for behavior and conduct. This is not really a lesson. This is everyday, threaded into every interaction. They are watching how you handle problems and challenges. You are role modeling the how, they are learning every minute of everyday what you accept, tolerate, and celebrate. This indirect influence is how you lead, it matters most of all.
Direct:
Conversely, there are many ways to approach building community in the classroom in a direct way. Lessons, books, games, anecdotal stories, and discussions that are absolutely deliberate in approach. These are very effective because they provide concrete, hypothetical examples of the social norms and virtues that lead to positive relationships, self pride, satisfaction, happiness and academic success. (Check out this great blog post on direct instruction of rules
HOW DO YOU KEEP IT GOING?
Review, review, review.
I developed a resource to use for explicit instruction of classroom and behavior management because I needed visuals that provide clear illustrations and simple, kid-friendly explanations to teach my little learners the basics of how to behave and get along in school. I have lots of second language learners as well, and the visuals are a must for them!
When I start out at the beginning of the year I assume my kindergarten kids know nothing about being in school or how to use any of the materials in our room. Every detail of every minute of the day is explained. From how to stand up and push your chair in nicely, to how to hold scissors when we are walking. Everything. It is tedious, tiring, and time consuming, but it is worth it. You can’t maintain procedures that were never there in the first place. The first month is so crucial for nailing down routines and procedures! The pay off is around the first part of October when things start running like clock work and reminders become much less frequent!
I LOVE using these as anchor charts and also as a slideshow. To be able to have something I can show physically or digitally to my kids is priceless. They get it. I keep the “Duck Tails & Bubbles” anchor chart right on the wall near my door all year long. “Show me your duck tails and bubbles!” They love it, and it's positive and fun! Pulling out the other anchor charts as reminders with the class or individually as needed with students becomes a mini social story of sorts. It takes them back to the time when we learned about it, and makes it easy to recall and connect the discussions we had prior, to the current situation. Re-visiting the slideshow when new students arrive helps them to assimilate into our environment and also serves as a great review for the whole class.
I truly hope you have a great school year, and whether you are brand new to teaching or have some years under your belt, I hope this blog post will inspire you to approach your classroom management deliberately with intention for growing great little people!
Here's a little management freebie for you!
I have also included the smaller version of each anchor chart, which I like to use in the writing center, laminated and on a ring (just like the Alphabet Anchor Charts). Write the Room recording sheets are also included!
